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I had a date tell me that he met a woman for a date that said "FEW EXTRA POUNDS" and she was (hands far apart) this wide.
I have a few extra pounds, and I know I am overweight comparative to standards, but I am also averaged sized compared to what the "average" woman is in the USA, which is supposed to be a size 14.
I am far from petite, but I am far from (hands far apart) this wide.
So, asking guys......you see a "FEW EXTRA POUNDS" do you think very huge and the person that put that is lying, or do you assume the woman is severely over weight. I would rather him be pleasantly surprised, as shocked and dismayed with a side of horrified!!!
Beauty is all in the eye of the beholder, it sounds so basic, but the key is to find that don't see you like the previous jerk.
I think you are a woman with a few extra pounds literally and that's it.
There are plenty of guys that will find you attractive, just be patient.
It is vague for a reason, it's all how you view yourself.
I think if someone has a pic on there profile, or has sent the person a pic before they meet up it doesn't really make much difference.