If you do decide to date him while he is going through a divorce, then be prepared for: Being the OTHER woman They are not divorced yet, she is still legally his wife.
He won't have the strength to walk away from your relationship. This is more likely the case if they have been married for many years or if they have young kids.
If the wife does not want to leave him, you may have to deal with her fighting for him over the next few years.
You will have to put up with her crying to him, and trying all sorts to get him (or you) to feel sorry for her. Mad insecurities You will need to be prepared to face constant reminders that she is a big part of his life and it will take time to let go of her.
Perhaps he still has their wedding pictures, or you sleep in the same bed she where she slept with him.
It is not uncommon to feel inadequate or as if you're being compared to his wife.
This takes time to pass, which is why you need to give a man who is going through a divorce the space to settle it on his own.
Poverty A failed marriage usually costs a man much more than a woman.
So, you've just met someone and after a few dates, you find out that he is not divorced yet. It is better to break it off in the beginning before feelings develop.
If you stay and get involved with him, it will be hard to walk away.