I don't know, it's just what you do." READ: 20 First Date Questions You Don't Want To Ask ...
"I wouldn't let a girl pay." Josh, 33, says that it has nothing to do with old-world traditions and everything to do with being a gentleman. If I were a girl, I don't think I'd go out again with a guy who expected me to pay on the first go-around." READ: How to Make It or Fake It On a Blind Date Adam, 27, agrees.
"I don't think I'd ever let a girl pay, unless I was taking out a friend. "It's not really something I would personally ever do, but, hey, to each their own. And if I'm being honest, it's kind of expected, right?
" Joey, 25, says that he's open to the idea, but he'd never actually follow through. " He says it like it's a revolutionary idea that just came to him — sort of like how the founders of NASA must have felt when they suggested they'd be able to rest a man on the moon.
"It sounds like a good idea," Joey adds, "but I don't really think it'd ever happen. On a first date, I want you to get a good impression of me, and in my mind, part of that is picking up the check.
When I first started dating my boyfriend nearly four years ago, I didn't really think much of the fact that he'd picked up the tab in the wake of our first dinner date.
Granted, we'd been friends for a while, so it felt more like a pizza-and-beer filled catch up than an awkward first get-to-know-you-while-avoiding-anything-that-could-make-me-look-ugly-like-spaghetti tryst for two.
READ: 15 Foods That Will Gross Out Your Date Fast forward four years later and now I pick up the dinner checks — not because he can't afford it (because he can), but out of a sheer desire to fight the system that, quite literally, fed me. Do they want women to comp the first meal — or do they expect to go halvsies?
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Surprisingly enough, she didn't seem too shocked by my suggestion.
But she never got in touch with me about a second date, either, so…" READ: 15 Sexy Foods to Order on a Date Jimmy, 26, says that the only time he's offered to split the tab is when his date is vehemently asking to pay for part.
"I'm kind of embarrassed admitting this to you," he says, "but, yep, I've split the bill.